EAP is a solution-focused modality which means that we believe our clients have their own best answers within themselves; it just may be clouded or buried. The horses’ input allows clients to see these options/ solutions and provide an emotionally safe place to explore them. In the hundreds of sessions we have facilitated with the same equipment, horses, activity and even goals - none have ever resolved in the same way, that is because for each client the solutions that arise out of EAP will be the missing link to their own unique struggle. This work is highly customized and specific from client to client.
Due to the intensity, effectiveness, experiential and solution focused origins; EAP is considered a short-term brief approach to resolving a wide variety of emotional/ mental health issues. Participants learn about themselves, their choices, their lifestyle, their perceptions and their perspectives from engaging in activities with the horses, and then processing (discussing) metaphors, feelings, behaviors and patterns that are revealed within the client’s own terms, understanding and context.
Horses are tame, yet wild at the same time. No matter how domesticated horses have become each and every one of them can revert instantly to its primal instincts and be completely connected to their essence, and ancestry. They reflect our own longing to have individuality yet to be connected to a community at the same time. Horses model essential qualities of trust, authenticity, honesty, intuition, listening deeply and a willingness of spirit. By connecting to horses and plugging into their natural world, we are able to learn and adopt these principals in a way that serves our own best healthy choices and personal growth.
When changing any behavior, habit or emotion, one of the fastest ways to train the brain is to master present moment awareness. BEing fully present means you are engaged in the moment with all of your senses attuned to what is happening right here, right now. You are neither worrying about the future nor regretting the past but are experiencing the present moment as it unfolds. Animals (horses) only exist in the present moment. While they do have memory, they do not focus energy toward the past or the future. All that there is and all that matters is this moment.
One of the first things that is accomplished for clients when working with our horses is immediate present moment awareness. It is almost impossible to concentrate on a past/future thought with 1000 pounds moving about. In subsequent sessions other more personal skills are addressed with the constant reinforcement of present moment thinking. It then becomes transferred to real life when you are not in the EAP arena. Horses have gentle spirits and offer us unlimited patience for us to understand, accept and become truly present in our lives.